Don’t Start None, Won’t Be None!

19 Apr

I am vocal, jovial and animated around those whom I am comfortable with. For everyone else I am quite reserved as I am observing and calculating whether or not it is a good idea to be the me that everyone else is accustomed to. Don’t get me wrong, I am always me, day in, day out, I will remain true to who I am. I just have a filter, some people get 20%, some get 50%, very few can handle much more than that!

That being said, tonight was sister time with my lovely lil’ sis/bestie. Of course being the fashionista that she is, Erica showed up looking casually fab! ( I was underwhelmed by my own work attire of khaki and denim, but I digress.) While enjoying drinks, each others company and conversation with a random oil rig worker from Canada, I eyed an old a#$ man, old enough to damn near be her grandfather eyeballing her, all while his wife was looking at her phone!! I looked at him looking at her and went into protective sister mode. His wife looked up and tried to cover up his creepy lurking by commenting on my sissy’s tattoo and attire. This set his wife off and this broad had the unmitigated gaul to start talking trash about MY sister!! Oh hell naw!!

This is where my filter went from 50% to 100% and she got the full brunt of who I can be! I unceremoniously told her to shut up talking about my family. I kindly informed her that she needed to check her husband, who was eye-banging my sis while she was busy looking at her phone, rather than making unfounded, ignorant and slanderous comments about my sister. (Alcohol had nothing to do with me confronting her, I protect mine sober or not)

The moral of the story my lovelies is this: Don’t think just because we are pretty and genial and laugh with people we meet at random that we will simply let anyone talk unmerited smack about us. We are ladies first so we won’t fight you physically, nor will we make a scene in public; but be prepared for a verbal assault if you are in the wrong. If you don’t start none, there won’t be none!

Blessings and Happiness

T. Nicole


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4 responses to “Don’t Start None, Won’t Be None!

  1. Little Sissy

    April 19, 2012 at 11:07 pm

    Your better tell em!

    • grahamcrackercrumbs09

      April 20, 2012 at 8:21 am

      Right is right, wrong is wrong, and ugly is forever! LOL!! I was floored when she came and sat next to me at the bar, I literally had to hold back from telling her what for and then kicking her barstool!

  2. Jordy

    April 20, 2012 at 12:13 am


    • grahamcrackercrumbs09

      April 20, 2012 at 8:23 am

      You already know Jordy! I don’t normally act like that in public, I am refined, classy ( a term that is grossly overused by those who really have no class) and a lady… that doesn’t mean that I don’t have some tendencies that creep out occassionally!


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